Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Sometimes I Get Tired, Too

Greg doesn't have a lot of energy right now. He's gone through a "faith detox" sort of thing lately, where he now declares that he's not a Christian if being a Christian means adhering to what he sees as a ridiculous series of statements. From what I read from him, he's been a longtime critic of most church practices that take away from the essence of discipleship; that needlessly pile on or cater to the whims of a comfortable, consumerist middle-class lifestyle. More recently, he's gotten dissatisfied with beliefs in substitutionary atonement, the Bible as infallible God-bestowed document (which includes accounts of genocide, slavery, divine pettiness, etc.). It's not that he just recently gave up these things...he gave them up quite a while ago. He's gotten tired of arguing for broader thinking on these themes, and finally gave up.

(Understand that I mean "gave up" in a burned-out sort of way, and not in any sort of way that sought an easier path.)

This quote struck me in just the right way:

Just driving by a church makes me weary.

Yes, out of three paragraphs, this one sentence struck me. Because sometimes I feel like that, too.

It's only rarely that it's my own church that makes me weary, though. I live right next to it, and every once in a while I look over at it and sigh. This is mainly an "I live right next door to where I work" sort of thing, though, and less a discontented sigh at everything that is wrong with Christianity and the haplessly broken institution that strives to embody what Jesus really wanted.

But sometimes a sigh does escape my lips for those reasons. I could pass by any church and that would happen. Sometimes it is the church I serve, sometimes not. I'll sigh at the huge non-denominational church that promotes mudpits and carnivals for its youth, that causes reactions of both jealousy and disgust from my membership, that won't give us heathen mainliners the time of day. I'll sigh at the small rural church that keeps promoting it's old-timey cornfield religion. I'll sigh in the middle of Christian bookstores promoting Bible Sudoku and Christian shoes(!). I'll sigh as I happen to overhear two women in Borders decrying a contemporized play adaptation of The Screwtape Letters that apparently addresses sexual temptation in too graphic a manner, and wonder why people think "Christian art" is only supposed to be fluffy and banal.

It's in moments like this that I feel tired, if not even tempted to just throw it all out. Why bother with the divisions, the strong desire to live in one's favorite heyday, the marketing of spiritual pap, the oversensitivity? Why bother with the theological arguments, the sometimes crusty hymns, the flareups over administrivia, the striving to get this, that, or the other demographic interested in some aspect of church life?

I sigh, and then I arrive at my destination. I talk to the young woman with lung cancer interested in baptism. I visit the older woman who can't seem to put life back together after her husband of 50+ years died. I talk to a couple senior high kids about faith themes contained in an episode of The Simpsons over Doritos and soda.

I go to these places and I realize that there's still hope. And I realize that I've got some energy left to do this Christianity thing after all.


Kelly said...

My first visit here. I loved your post. Real-life connection with real-life people struggling to follow Jesus is what keeps me going back, in spite of the BS. Thank you for your insights.

Anonymous said...

Your church is in the middle of a corn field - so what are you saying!

I grew up with the "Gospel According to Peanuts" - by Charles himself, actually I took a college level course at Westminister College in Maryland, that material is still very relevant today.

And boy do I agree on the mudpits and stuff, I really worry about seekers getting the real Word, and people that should know better giving into peoples "wants" instead of their "needs".

I like the quote from MR. Churchhill, "if you under 30 and not a liberal, you don't have a heart, if you are over 30 and not a conservative, you don't have a brain", well or something like that - same thing applies to congregations.

Any way we can continue to that the liberal / conservative debate over more coffee, as long as it is free trade.

LutheranHusker said...

Amen, amen, and amen! Great thoughts. I just got home from a discussion with some high schoolers about the Christian themes in "Remember the Titans." Great discussion of racism, diversity, and having the ability to wallow through the muck of our lives having the ability to bring us even closer together.

Too bad we can't do more of that as church bodies...

Gigi said...

been lurking decided to unlurk and say ......hi and and....just Hi